“Having kids is a very selfish thing” – Nigerian gay writer, Vincent Desmond.

Bayo Ajibola

A Nigerian journalist and LGBTQ Writer, Vincent Desmond has stated that having children is an fundamentally selfish thing on the part of parents.

As stated by him, it’s selfish simply because you are bringing children into the world and forcing them to live and participate in life and society. Read as he tweeted below…

“my personal beef with having kids is that I think having kids is an inherently very selfish thing.

Selfish on the part of the parents because you’re bringing in a whole human and forcing them to live and participate in life and society. And for what? Bragging rights? Because you feel it’s time?”


Bayo Ajibola

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