Thinking and feeling that love moves everything is a reality, but many times, instead of building successful relationships, the opposite happens. We wear ourselves out looking for what we don’t even have or give – love. Of course there is lasting love but it is necessary to build it from a stable foundation.
Creating a healthy relationship as a couple is far from a toxic relationship. In the latter, emotional dependence is seen regularly. It is essential to create lasting relationships and this can be done through the following ways:
1. Know yourselves
No relationship is going to thrive if the two parties involved do even know themselves well not to talk about understanding them. A good relationship, especially one that is tilting towards marriage requires both individuals to know and actually accept the differences both have while seeking greater love.
2. Conscious and free commitment
A relationship is built from a free commitment by both people. Nothing is forced. Both parties in every relationship should always learn to be more open-minded, free and transparent in your dealings with your partner.
Our way of communicating is our way of thinking and feeling. It is very important to communicate appropriately in the couple, to grow and be able to manage conflicts, when hearts grow apart. Be free. Communicate freely with your spouse and adopt better and more effective ways of talking about your life.
4. Be Compassionate
Look at the other with eyes of tenderness in the face of their problems and know how to reach out that helping hand to lift them up when they fall. Compassion has to do with genuine love for another person.
Putting ourselves in the place of the other, in their way of thinking and feeling. Be an example of life, to help you navigate through the potholes of life, thus helping you to manage your own conflicts and be more empathetic towards your partner.
6. Sexual bond
Relationships require some form of intimacy between the two parties involved. While some people advocate for abstinence or no sex until marriage, other people feel it is a sign of love. Improve your sexual bond if you are sexually active and build intimacy in any way you can.
7. Personal development
When each of the members of the couple commits to their personal development, their conscience, each day wakes up and their light will lead life instead of its shadows. Help your partner to develop themselves in any possible way. It helps keep your bond alive.
These are just some of the major ways you can improve your relationship. Also, trust your partner. Trust itself is a risk, but when loyalty and fidelity prevails, trust is not feared.