I am pregnant for my ex boyfriend. What do I do?

Please hide my identity. My boyfriend is a serial cheat. He is always hanging out with different women and each time I find out and confront him about it, he apologizes and promises to change but he doesn’t. He was always texting different women and sends them money even when they don’t ask for it. I always complained and it caused numerous quarrels between us. When it gets too much, I threaten to break up but he always comes begging.  

The last straw that broke the camel’s back was when I found out he was still seeing his ex. We had a heated argument and he told me horrible things. I got angry and left. The next day I called him and broke up with me. He called and came to my house to beg but I already made up my mind. I realized I deserve a better person who would respect me and treat me well. I loved him but I knew it was time to let go. 

I severed contact with him. I blocked him in different social media platforms and took back the key to my house from him. I also changed the pin and password to my phone, credit cards and other things since he knew all of them. I was determined to move on against all odds. Little by little, I took steps and did anything possible to help me get over him. 

I was living well and gradually forgetting about my ex until I started feeling unwell. I went to the hospital and after some tests which were recommended by the doctor, I found out that I was pregnant for my ex boyfriend. Guys, I don’t know what to do. Where do I start from? I have a demanding job and taking care of this baby will affect my life in so many ways. 

Am I supposed to tell my serial cheat of a boyfriend that I am pregnant for him? I am not even sure he is going to believe. Even if he does what is going to change? I can’t even think of marrying him so it’s totally off the line. Carrying this baby for nine months is going to change everything about me. Thinking about everything scares the life out of me. 

I don’t think I am ready to be a single mom yet. I can’t deal with the public attention and side talks that come with having a baby without being married. I am well respected in my place of work and so many people look up to me. How will I face them. I also have some people that do not like me at the office. It is like we are in a silent competition because we are aiming for a higher position. Now with this pregnancy, I am sure I am never going to get that.

My life is currently falling apart. What should I do? I can’t go back to my ex. I don’t know how he will receive the news and I am not ready to face denial and rejection at this point in time. Please I need the contribution of the your readers. I love my job and it it my only means of survival. I also take care of my family through my job. I can’t risk it all. Help me out. 


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