Bayo Ajibola

Hi naijaparents, my name is stellah am 26 yrs old, i have a problem with the man am living with, at first i loved him so much but on his side he had alot of women at the end we got separated but after months to pass he came back to me asking for forgiveness,, i forgave him and now we are living together again but it is so hard on my side to live with him because i don’t feel anymore the love i had before unfortunately even on the side of sex i don’t feel him at all always it is like he is raping me am trying hard but I can’t,, then i real don’t know what i should do. Should i tell him or stay quite? Please i need ur advice

Bayo Ajibola

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  • From your story it seems you are not yet married to him, you are just living together. I will advise you call it quit and move on with your lives because your hearts do not beat as one.

    Joy Obiesie June 13, 2016 10:30 am Reply
  • If you no longer love him then you quiet, because all this things you listed shows you no longer love him

    shaba June 13, 2016 10:31 am Reply
  • for me it’s not right to move in with a man whom you are not married to. please have a talk with him in a heart of sincerity not with quarrelling. rather than site him as the problem, let him know you want to move on and make a better meaning to your life

    Cecexty June 13, 2016 10:39 am Reply
  • just follow your heart dear

    BEAUTYY June 13, 2016 10:31 pm Reply
  • If you are married to him then u need a counselor in ds… But if u re not.. U have d final say as d woman even in marriage according to law.. But if u r not married to him just follow your heart O before its too late.. And bring his baby for him cuz u are d one quitting him… It’s well

    abiodun Akinwole thythylayormee June 20, 2016 11:06 am Reply
  • If you have anyone outside giving you wrong advice… Pls don’t follow… U are even lucky for him to have come and beg u back.. Men are deceitful and we manage them like dat cuz only few are truthful… They can’t manage us but we can manage them.. So just take it easy and tell your self THIS IS MY HUSBAND AND ILOVE HIM FOR WHO HE is… Dats an antidote am giving u O… Only if u re married to him

    abiodun Akinwole thythylayormee June 20, 2016 11:10 am Reply
  • There is no happy home anywhere… We women make it happen by d help of God….. Cuz we are d owner of the home… God gave it to us… If he is impotent now… Eh Eh.. It’s another case..

    abiodun Akinwole thythylayormee June 20, 2016 11:15 am Reply
  • your story is somehow confusing seems you are not married to him yet married to him please if that is the case is better you quite than spending the rest of your life been unhappy

    amy nwakire June 21, 2016 1:53 pm Reply
  • Follow your heart

    Sunday Esther June 21, 2016 5:18 pm Reply
  • So Love expires, mmmh, i don’t think that was Love but infactuation
    Love should be able to die to itself
    It will do you more good to leave than to stay

    Nwosu Benjamin Uche June 26, 2016 6:12 am Reply
  • So sad… But you have no choice than to move on with Life rather than live in pretence marriage

    Tolulope Oyebade July 1, 2016 8:03 am Reply
  • Follow your heart

    Abiodun July 1, 2016 8:11 am Reply
  • Pls give him space, if you are legally married,let him you want to visit your parents,stay for some time,and examine yourself,if you missed him,its shows you are still in love,if no,tell him, don’t try to hide anything,its your happiness.but if you are not married quit

    Julie July 1, 2016 12:05 pm Reply
  • leave him

    goodseed July 1, 2016 9:23 pm Reply
  • Follow your heart my dear

    Unique July 29, 2016 12:41 pm Reply
  • Follow your heart what do you feel and what are your decision, make a decision and follow your heart

    Nal Luva May 15, 2019 1:01 pm Reply

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