I Had Your Baby After You Drove Me Out!

Bayo Ajibola

There was this lady I dated back 2010 and about to marry but due to infidelity I stopped the marriage process. She did all her antics for me to return back to her but failed. I got married in 2011 to another lady and she also got married to another man in 2013, presently have 3 children in the marriage.

However, she continued with her antics of trying to call me to be friends, wanting to know where I was transferred to as my work involves movement. She once told me she doesn’t mind flying down to give me good sex anytime she knows where I am. That day, I gave her the insult of her life. I cant imagine a married woman coming to stay with me for some days when I have my wife somewhere.

Recently, she came up with a story of having a 9 yrs old daughter for me with confidence. That if I am in doubt, I should conduct a DNA on the child. She sent me pics of the girl and said she doesn’t need any help from me as she is very buoyant to take care of the girl. She kept the girl with her aunty. The girl is schooling at the aunt’s place and doing well judging by the pics. I asked her when did she take in and have a child as at dat time, she told me she left with pregnancy b4 i got married and delivered after I was married.

Gentlemen, I have a sweet wife with 3 handsome and brilliant boys. I would not want to bring anything to destabilize my family. Good people of nairaland, how do I start telling my wife that the promiscuous lady I dumped for u is claiming to have a daughter for me. Pls ur advice pls my people.

Bayo Ajibola

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