My wife recently asked “are we ever going to have sex again?” to which I dropped my jaw and said, “you mean those countless times I attempted to initiate?…made an effort to have you come to bed when I went to bed yet you would prefer to watch your soap operas on tv?
You mean the gifts, the dinners, the attempted date-nights that you declined to go on, you mean the attempts at kissing you in the hall or attempting to get a meaningful deep cuddle out of you and you declined?
There is certainly going to be no sex until you recognize that I have been making an attempt for many years and you flat out made me feel like an undesirable. Till you start ‘dating and romancing me’ then you’ll just have to keep wondering why we are not having sexual intercourse. Do you understand?”
She walked away as I finished my question…Guess I got my answer.