Please keep me anonymous. I am in my late teens, precisely 28 and I am hoping to settle down before I clock 30. Age is not really the main thing for me, I just think that I have gotten to the point where I need to leave the bachelor lifestyle, settle down with one woman whom I love so much and build a home with her. I have a girlfriend whom I’ve been dating for less than a year now. Honestly, I thought she was the one for me. I mean, I was beginning to stop searching for another person but her late reactions are beginning to get me so worried and confused.
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My girlfriend doesn’t like my siblings one bit and up till today, I can’t seem to explain why. I have asked the reason so many times but she doesn’t give me a convincing reason. She is always beating around the bush and saying things that do not make sense to me at all. I haven’t officially taken her to meet all my siblings but she has seen 2 out of 3 of my siblings, both ladies. I showed her their pictures and later on, we ran into them at separate times.
When I first showed her their pictures, I noticed her expression changed but I didn’t bother to push forward. Then after we met them, she almost didn’t stop complaining about one thing or the other. It is either she complains about how they didn’t greet her properly or how they seem so cold to her. Meanwhile my siblings are so easygoing and fun to be with. The they we met, the were very receptive and we’re even those that offered her a hug. I have tried to ask her her major reason for disliking them but she hasn’t said.
I don’t know if they have met before. She hasn’t told me that. Moreover my siblings have not said anything. All they said was that she was beautiful and if her character is okay, that I should try and settle down with her. At least they didn’t show any hatred for her or act like they have met before. The only person she hasn’t met is my brother and there is no guarantee that she would like him if she doesn’t like the other two. My siblings and I share a strong bond and I not ready to fall out with any of them just because of a girl. Besides if she is going to cause any rift between my siblings, I will just end things. What do you think I should do?