A Nigerian man has taken to a forum to complain that his girlfriend who loves sex so much and he is confused on how to break up from her.
The man said he is an executive member of a fellowship on Campus and has re-dedicated his life to Christ with the vow to abstain from sex until marriage.
Read his full post:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I’m holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we’ve had sex before I assumed the office).
She’s an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.
Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn’t want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.
Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?
Thanks in anticipation