If he doesn’t have crust on the corners of his mouth he’s got clumps of snot crusted on the outside corner of his nose. Or his hair is greasy or his hat smells strongly of BO. or he smells like ass.
I’m trying not to over exaggerate any of those examples. Its seriously all i notice about him. we’re married (happily) and I’m not sexually attracted to him at all anymore because this every-day image is burned into my mind. I can’t kiss him without thinking there might be something on his mouth, or hold him without smelling his ass BO.
He is funny, sweet and smart… his IQ is a 130 and he’s a great person overall but gets super offended when I bring any of this up because honestly I have a lot of emotional issues that he handles very respectfully and logically.
Can I get any kind of advice about how to handle this? I honestly wish I could simply ignore it but unless i get super drunk to the point of not noticing I don’t want to bang my own husband. advice please?