My husband is always horny. I’m tired of doing it every day. What should I do about this please?

Bayo Ajibola

I got married last year to a kind and loving man. He is the best man I’ve ever met but he loves sex too much. He disvirgined me while we were dating and he’s the only one I’ve ever been with. We had sex a couple of times before our wedding and i was fine with it. But ever since we got married, he has been craving sex every day. I don’t know what to do. At the beginning of our marriage, I enjoyed having spontaneous sex with him. We are always together because we both work from home. I love seeing him every day but I’m getting tired of getting down. 

It was so nice knowing that my man found me attractive and irresistible. He turned me on so much that I even initiated sex. During our honeymoon, we explored each other’s bodies and gave ourselves the pleasure we deserve. My husband is really good in bed and he knows what buttons to press to make me feel aroused. I can’t get enough of him because of his sexual prowess and he always tells me how sweet I am. He’s the kind of woman most women want. He has a big dick and most importantly, he knows how to use it well. 

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Whenever I feel tired of having sex, he will come close to me and touch me in places that make me tingle. But I am getting tired of doing it every day. Many of my friends who are married talk about how they only sex 3 times a week. How do I tell them that my husband and I sometimes have sex twice per day? It doesn’t matter if he’s sick or stressed out, he will still want to climb me. If I wake him up in the middle of the night and stroke his dick, he will be ready to please me. I once asked my husband if he doesn’t get tired of sex, he just laughed and said that he’s just doing his duty as a husband. 

He said he believes that any woman who is well-serviced will have fewer chances of cheating. He said it goes the same way for him too. That for as long as he has sex with me regularly, he will not be attracted to another woman. Many people do say that men are polygamous in nature. I often disputed it but that’s the truth. It’s either he’s troubling you for sex or one lady somewhere is helping you. I’m really scared to tell him to reduce our intercourse because I don’t want him to get it elsewhere. I trust him so much but I don’t know if he will be able to resist temptation.

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I’ve often caught ladies and even married women ogling my husband. They will stare at him and sometimes lick their lips. I often think they suspect that he’s so good and can pleasure a woman well. I know he’s that hot and there are many ladies who are willing to jump in bed with him. That’s why I try to be in the mood for sex anytime he desires it. Another issue is that my vagina is often sore after too much knacking. I would tell him to let us take a little sex break but he will promise to be gentle and not roughen me. But what my vagina needs after many sex sessions is some fresh air and no penetration. 

My husband and I agreed to not have kids until after two years of marriage. We just want to make the most of our youth and enjoy ourselves before having children. Well, that’s not exactly what I wanted. It’s what he suggested and I agreed to it. But now I’m beginning to have a rethink. It’s a little over a year after we tied the knot. I think it would be a good idea to have kids now. Maybe if I get pregnant, it will reduce how much we have sexual intercourse.

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I don’t know if I’m being ungrateful to God by complaining about his sexual stamina. I had prayed to God that I don’t want a 2-minute man due to what I heard from sexually frustrated women. My husband is everything I asked for but too much of everything can be bad. When he starts to pound me, he will continue for hours without cumming. Even if he cums, he will be ready for another round after some time. I enjoy all of it but I want us to reduce it. It’s rare for my husband to not touch me. 

The only time he leaves me alone is if we have a quarrel. When he is angry, he won’t come near me at all. I’ve tried to annoy him several times but he doesn’t stay angry at me for long. He will still come begging in less than 24 hours. So I cannot keep annoying him for fun. Sometimes, I feign anger or act displeased so he won’t touch me. But he still has his way around me. At the end of the day, I will find myself moaning under him. 

Even my monthly period can’t save me because I don’t usually have a heavy flow. My period usually lasts two or three days and isn’t very much. My husband will just use it as a lubricant to make my vagina wetter. He said he can’t resist the urge each time he sees me. It’s either early morning sex, bathing sex, afternoon sex, or night sex. Because of him, I stopped wearing sexy revealing clothes in the home. But as you may assume, that doesn’t deter him from wanting sex. Even if I tie wrapper around my body and don’t make my hair, his dick will still stand. Is there anyone who has experienced this before? Please advise me because I’m really not sure of what to do. 


Bayo Ajibola

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