I have come to complain and seek advice from you all because I am at the verge of losing my home and my marriage. All I have worked for over how many years seem to be going down the drain. We have been married for eighteen years and I have faithfully stood by my husband all these years. We have three children. One girl and two boys. My last child is 10 while the first is 17 and in first year in a private university. I am a busy mom. My job requires my full attention so I couldn’t keep the house in order. My kids are still young so they can’t fix the house or cook.
I cook sometimes but because I am always busy, we employed a nanny. She is 19 and because she is from my village, I decided to train her. We pay her though but I still train her in school. She is a hardworking girl. She cleans the house thoroughly and cooks a nice meal. She is still very young which made me not to even suspect everything. My husband owns a private company so he has the luxury of time and the liberty to be home whenever he wants to. As such, I leave the house before him and come home late as well. I get home around 6 but he comes home by 5, sometimes 4.
I have never had a reason to suspect my husband for cheating. He is a very good man and is always available for me. He spends time with the family and we even go for vacation sometimes. I thought I had a faithful husband, little did I know that he was committing the evil offence in our home. I just found out recently when I woke up in the middle of the night to work on a project for my job and noticed that my husband wasn’t in the room. I checked the bathroom but he wasn’t there. He wasn’t in the sitting room either which made me more curious. I checked the kids’ room and he wasn’t there.
I walked in on him in the help’s room. I can’t even explain how I felt. I don’t know how long this has been going on. The worst part of it is that my husband doesn’t even feel remorseful. He blames me for not being available for him. He claims I prioritize my job more than him. What am I supposed to do? I work so that I can help the family. All I do, I do for my family. I haven’t been able to handle all these. I asked the girl to leave but my husband is against it. Can you even imagine that? He isn’t even ashamed that he is sleeping with such a young child. I don’t know what to do. I can’t withstand the girl’s presence in my home.