Kaffy, the acclaimed Nigerian dancer, strongly criticized a fan who appeared to be mocking her unsuccessful marriage with Joseph Ameh.
According to our sources, Kaffy expressed her thoughts on marriage and emphasized the importance of conducting thorough research before becoming involved with someone.
In her statement on Threads, she penned:
The fear of marriage is the begging of wisdom. So you can do due diligence”
Reacting to the post, a Threads user with the handle, jayne_sammymere wrote: “Nawa ooo, if e no work for you no mean say e no go work for others. Marriage is a beautiful thing.”
In her response to the fan, Kaffy acknowledged the failure of her own marriage and cautioned that unless caution is exercised, the fan’s marriage is also likely to falter. She pointed out that numerous women yearn for an idyllic married life, unaware of the necessity to acquire knowledge and skills.
Kaffy emphasized that while marriage can be a wonderful experience, toxic relationships significantly impact the collective mindset of society, leading to its decline.
Kaffy wrote: “No one spoke about it not working or being beautiful and yes mine failed and yours will if care isn’t taken cuz a lot of you ladies wish without realizing you need to learn and marriage though beautiful is a serious matter.
“Bad relationships are a major contributor to the decadence of the mindset of the community.
“You learn the best out of the clouds and face the reality of what is needed to ensure you even are yoked right. I am not your enemy.”