My New Fiance is Very Close to His Mother, Should I Bring it Up?

Bayo Ajibola

My last relationship did not end very well. He left the country without telling me and decided to stay there. He basically broke up with me on the phone. This was over a year ago, and thank God its over though cos I always doubted his honesty. I met someone else after that and we are recently engaged but I need you to please help me ask your readers for their opinion on the issue with his mom.

He’s God fearing, loves me very much but.

1. He talks to his mom at least 30 mins every day.
2.He insists that we live just 15mins from his parents house.
3. He wants us to attend their Church but I have kept my foot down to say no way.

A part of me feels like she’d intrude and poke her nose in our marriage a lot. Do I bring it up with him? I don’t want to have to fight for his attention. Help please. Thanks.

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PS – She’s nice but quite controlling.  Already dictating what kind of dress I’m allowed to wear and insisting on her wedding vendors. Its my wedding and she’s already taking over.  Im scared that if I don’t mention it to my fiance now it will continue in marriage.

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Bayo Ajibola

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