Greetings. Please keep my identity hidden before you post this on your page. I need your advice because I found something really disturbing in my house. I am a married man and we just have only one child, a beautiful daughter. We got married two years ago and to me, everything has been perfect. My wife is a good woman and she is very hardworking. She has a good paying job and she contributes so much to the payment of the house bills. Our sex life has been great, at least the much I know. We have sex frequently and when she wants.
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I won’t say I’m perfect in bed but I perform well. Six days ago, I was preparing for work and I was almost late. My wife had already left because she had a presentation to do at work. I was looking for a black t-shirt I usually wore beneath my work shirt. I checked it in my wardrobe but I couldn’t find it. I decided to check my wife’s wardrobe because sometimes she wears my shirts to go and buy groceries. As I was searching her wardrobe, a dildo fell out. I was shocked and confused at the same thing. What was a dildo doing in my wife’s closet?
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This weakened my spirit. How I even got to work that day is still a mystery to me. I love my wife so much and I perform well. She has never complained of my inability to satisfy her. Most times she tells me how she loves me and how glad she is that our sex life is great. Does it mean that she was lying to me all these while. If I wasn’t satisfying her why didn’t she just tell me so I could improve and do better? Why did she resort to using a dildo. This make me feel less of a man and I hate it. I haven’t brought myself to face her and I don’t even know what to do.
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