My man and I had been in relationship for over five years. We went separate ways for three months and at which point, I seriously believed it was over and after which i experienced a serious depretion. It took me a while to come out of it.
Couple of Weeks after our split, there was no longer real contact between us. I started a new relationship with another man we had sex as you do a couple of times.
An opportunity came up for us to try and sort things out with my ex a short time later, i grabbed that opportunity even though we were still separated, but we saw each other in the mean time.
During this period, I didn’t have any othe relationship with any other man or had anything to do with any man again, however i did not tell my ex I had slept with someone else while we separated.
After a couple of months, we started our relationship all over again and we are now very happy together even better than before.
The big problem now is the other guy i slept with told someone else who happen to be my partners friend and he wants to tell my partner. If my partner finds out, I don’t believe we will be together anymore, it will be the end for good.
I believe I have two options: It is either I tell my partner what happened with a very high possibility of losing each other for good, or risk it coming out and denying it. It may even never come out at all, but it is possible. And if it doesn’t come out, then we would continue to be happy.
If it does, then it would be over for good anyway. Or, I try to explain that we were not together?
What do I do? I am stuck in a real situation with this. Any advice would be helpful. I really do not know what to do.