Good day my name is Bukola. Pls I’ll like to seek an advice from u about my relationship.
I started dating my boyfriend Dec 16 2015 which is my birthday date. He and my ex boyfriend are very good friends I broke up with my ex boyfriend to date him because I found out that my ex only wanted to use and dump me but thanks God all thru d 3weeks of our relationship we never had sex, so when I found out I broke up with him though they both asked me out at d same time. Afterward I broke up with my ex (adewunmi) to date his friend(ayobami). We really love each other so much and we don’t hid things from each other. But just last month he said something about his dad telling him not to marry a lady from a broken home, which is the truth I’m from a broken home and he is also from a broken home. That got me pissed off but he said that won’t stop him from loving and marrying me. But before he said told me this he use once told me that his dad told him his mother doesn’t want anything good for him that she is a witch which he(ayobami) believed. I was angry with him that how could he believe such a thing, he said he knows his mother than I do. Now I’m scared no lady will ever want to marry a man whose mother-in-law is a witch and who knows the consequences of what his dad told him about not to marry a lady from a broken home, I’m pissed off right now d feelings are no longer there but he still love me which I am not anymore and I don’t wanna break his heart cause he has helped me in so many ways. Please tell me what do I do.
Well either side of ones family there’s always one fellow that’s tagged ‘witch’ aside that I understand his dad’s points, 60% of children from broken homes usually have an ugly picture of the past which they use to judge situations,for instance you’d see a man who’s dad left his mum being too over protective,while the woman who’s dad left can’t just trust her man. We have to rewrite this assumptions by making the best choice with our head before going into matrimony so that we don’t stay on this roller over&over. Personally my mother told me from a very tender age don’t ve anything to do with an ibo man,their mothers won’t let you rest because they love thier tribes person only,so I grew up closing every proposal to ibo suitors,
but as I can’t play God,i fell in love with my husband who’s dad is from my tribe but his mother is Ibo ahahahhaahahah very funny&she wasn’t different from what I was told,yet I respect her&let her know no Ibo language in my house,
neither will anybody help me rename my child&we are good to continue. So for you two you have to sit&talk real deep,get to findout if the father is merely casting aspersions on his mum because er man wey no send him mama can bullshit you¬ feel nada!