So I just checked my wife’s FB messages and found out that my wife has been cheating on me with a neighbor. We have been married for 13 years and have 3 kids and I love her dearly. They have been texting for about 5 months and I think having sex for a couple of months. I read all of the messages and they were heartbreaking…talking about sex and stuff. She mentions in her texts she doesn’t have love for me talked about divorcing me for him. When I confronted her about it, she was in shock I found out.
I didn’t lash out but told her how heartbroken I am. I asked her about when she was going to ask me for a divorce and she said she didn’t know, she said it “comes and goes”. I asked her if she would now pursue a divorce and she said she didn’t know, “I’m in shock”. I said if she wants to try and make it work, she has to break it off with him immediately.
She said OK. AFter the confrontation, I check her FB message again and she told the other guy that I knew everything and asked I don’t ruin his family. It seems my wife is his 3rd affair. I mentioned that I don’t know what to do but have lots of thinking to do.
We are taking the kids to the beach in a week…not sure what to do about that now..